
Business mentoring is all about creating a mutually and rewarding relationship between two people with that all important similar interest, ‘business’! A business mentor should be more than just your advisor, but a loyal and trusting friend for life!
In my line of work I get to meet different types of businesses across Hampshire, Surrey and the UK. Some of these business owners have become very good friends of mine over the years. I often meet up with several of them for a beer or coffee once a month, to chat about our families, targets, work, investments and businesses! It is what I would like to call a perk of the job!
This kind of mentoring works well for me, I mean we are all in business so I guess we are all going through the same things day in day out… things like staffing, the recession, online marketing etc tend to be the topic of conversation! I would say the bond between my clients / friends has really helped me to develop our business. This free mentoring often concludes with new ideas being taken away by both parties (and sometimes a hangover). That said; it was not until I went into business that these business relationships formed… Your life really does change so much when you go into business so expect to loose and make new friends along the way!
Having parents and in-laws who are also in business is another advantage for me, answers to questions or feedback on new business ideas is often easy to come by, and for that I am extremely grateful!
So how can you build a solid mentoring relationship? Who should you turn to for feedback or advice on those new entrepreneurial ideas? Friends and family (depending on experience and knowledge of business) is a great place to start… Let’s face it, people like to talk and people also like others to listen!
Taking an interest in the person as a human being is also important, success is not just about money or what car you drive, ask your business mentor what’s going on in his or her life, say something funny that happened to you, make yourself real! Try not to bleed as much business information as you can as quick as you can, don’t call or email saying “can I pick your brain about something?” … Set a date in your diary to meet up and discuss those all important life changing decisions face to face!
In life I am a strong believer that you get out what you put in, if you have a business or service you can offer your business mentor then do it! A business mentor should not be seen as just your council, they are not here to hold your hand or to make the decisions for you! Every now and again you should thank them for the differences they make, offer rewards when rewards are due, and make sure your mentoring relationship is mutually rewarding! In business backs need to get scratched from time to time, be honest about what you do and what you can offer, never forget relationships (both business and personal) are built on trust!
So to conclude, the role of the business mentor or life coach is to assist business owners through honest advice, guidance, support and encouragement. A business mentor should be able to generate sales, locate and address any marketing or branding issues, understand business management, team building and help pinpoint those entrepreneurial strategies for growth.
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Michael Jon Ward